This week we release our Top 10 Best Cities for Singles. Part of the criteria was that the city have a large proportion of single people in peak marriage ages. The cities at the top of the list were, somewhat as expected the home of major colleges or universities. College is a time when many are single, and going to/graduating college is a time of life when many people move.
But more generally where do single people move, and perhaps just as importantly how does that differ from how married people move?
Two notes before we proceed: For this exercise we’re going to focus for the time being on the 85% of the U.S. population who live in metro areas, which are defined by a principal city and its suburbs. Also, we’re going to focus on two groups: married people who live with their spouses and single people who have never been married (i.e. excluding divorced, widowed, etc.). As a short hand, we’ll call these two groups married and single. All the data is from the U.S. Census Bureau.
Let’s start with where they’re starting. This may come as a shock, but married people live in the suburbs about 2:1 over the city. Single people are more evenly dispersed with about 40% living in cities versus 48% in the suburbs.
Singles are more flexible in their living arrangements. They’re tied to one job, not two, and don’t have to worry as much about school districts. Granted, there are plenty of un-married parents and married couples without school-aged (or any) kids, but for the sake of argument we’re generalizing here. All that said, we’re not that mobile of a society overall. In the last year, singles moved at twice the rate (16%) than married couples but that’s still a pretty small segment of the population overall.
As with all groups, the majority of single and married movers stay within the same metro area. When we are mobile we still tend to stick pretty close to our home bases. Singles are slightly more likely (67%) to stay within the same metro as married couples (61%). They’re also more likely to stay within the principal city of that metro whereas married couples are typically moving from suburb to suburb.
For those moving between metro areas, singles and married couples move at nearly the same rate. Again, singles are more likely to settle in the city and married couples in the suburbs. These differences are even seen in the people moving from non-metro (rural) areas into metro areas. More than half of singles wind up in the city whereas two thirds of married couples head for the suburbs.
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